
One
who holds his friends in good esteem and treats them with respect has gained
many defenders and supporters against his enemies.

The
need for faithful friends is no less than need for the vital necessities of
life. Being among a secure and peaceful circle of friends means finding safety
against many sorts of hazard and danger.

He
is wise who, if a friendship is damaged, immediately removes the cause of
discontentment and restores good relations. But even wiser is the one who is
careful enough to avoid or prevent disagreement with his friends in the first
place.

Love
and good relations between friends continue so long as they understand each
other, show self-denial and make sacrifices within permissible limits. The
friendship between those who cannot renounce their interests and preferences
for the sake of their friends cannot be enduring.

One
is loyal and faithful to one's friends to the extent one shares in their
troubles as well as in their joys. The one who cannot weep when his friends
weep and rejoice when they rejoice cannot be regarded as a faithful friend.

If
we cannot accept the criticism made of us by those we love and who love us, we
may lose our friends and remain unaware of our defects.

One
who maintains a friendship with a friend who has fallen on hard times is a
true, loyal friend. Whoever does not support his friends against their
misfortunes has nothing to do with friendship.

Those
who tend to disagree and struggle with their friends have few friends. One who
desires to have friends both faithful and in great number should avoid
disagreement with them on trivial matters.

Friendship
is something pertaining to the heart and its sincerity. Those who think they
can gain others' friendship through deception and hypocrisy are themselves in a
manifest deception. Even if there are around them some simple-minded people who
have been taken in by their hypocrisy and flattery, it is inconceivable that
they will long be able to sustain friendship with them.

Do
not remember the promises that others have failed to keep; instead, consider
the undertakings you yourself have failed to carry out. Do not blame others
because they have not done good to you; instead, remember the chances you have
missed of doing something good to someone else.